My Contemplations !

Monday, January 16, 2006















A song that lingers in me...

The sweetest sounds
i'll ever hear
are still inside my head

The kindest words
i'll ever know
are waiting to be said

The most entracing sight of all
is yet for me to see...

And, the dearest love in all the world
is waiting somewhere for me!!!

Friday, January 13, 2006



What is friendship?
Who gives life to it??
Well, isn’t it everybody of us???
Yes, for every other person, there will be at least one best, life time friend.

A dearest pal, a companion. As there is a saying that goes like Friend, philosopher, guide and what not? But, how come? That’s the wonderful part of it wherein a friend is another person in your life with whom you can share everything in your mind. It means a lot.
If not, why do they say that parents should move like a friend when their children are grown up?


Why does everybody want to spend their entire life with a person who would just be a friend in every step ahead on to the future? Well, it’s the companionate love rather than a passionate one; that makes way to a strong and healthy relationship.

“A friend in need is a friend indeed” - It’s a very popular proverb.
But this really makes sense, isn’t it?
Whatever need it may be, a friend is there for us. May be we can think of a crisis situation, wherein we are stumbled to take a decision and its going to be our own friend and not relatives to get some help. An emotional/mental support is all we need in our day to day life and it’s definitely our own friend who can stand for us all the way through.

Friendship isn't always easily described. The Eskimos, they say, have a hundred different words for snow. Unfortunately, the English language isn't quite as innovative, though it has vast opportunities to differentiate meaning. Certainly, Love is one of those opportunities. And so, too, is Friendship.


Instead of different words, however, we're stuck with simple adjectives. Close friend. Best friend. Childhood friend. Intimate friend. Trusted friend. Beloved friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.
Friends are special people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society and mores (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate. But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.


Platonic love is very much a part of any close friendship. But such a love doesn't always stay platonic. Sometimes it turns into passionate love. Crossing that line, between friendship and love, can be both beautiful and extremely difficult. Well, that’s the hard part. If it gets on to it, it’s a blessing else it’s just a luck.

A famous quote for friendship:
A friend is someone we turn to

when our spirits need a lift.
A friend is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace.
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.

- Jean Kyler McManus –

My own quote for my own best friend

On this blog just want to say
That you can count on me
To be your friend until the end:
Just wait and you will see!


You are friendly, kind and caring
Sensitive, loyal and understanding
Humorous, fun, secure and true
Always there... yes that's you.

Friends will come and friends will go,
The seasons change and it will show,
I will age and so will you,
I know that you would be as true
To me for just as long.
No "if" or "but," no matter what,
Our friendship will be strong.

A thought of you is all it takes…
To know how lucky I am to have a friend like you

I cannot tell the precise moment when
We became friends…
But your caring and sharing ways
Filled my heart
And made it brim over…
& now I can’t imagine my life
Without the warmth of your friendship…

A friend is……… a push when you've stopped, a word when you‘re lonely, a guide when you’re searching, a smile when you’re sad, and a song when you’re glad.

"Friends invited and relatives by appointment"