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The magic of Love

Love is like magic
And it always will be.
For love still remains Life's sweet mystery!!
Love works in ways
That are wondrous and strange
And there's nothing in life
That love cannot change!!
Love can transform
The most commonplace
Into beauty and splendor
And sweetness and grace.
Love is unselfish,Understanding and kind,
For it sees with its heart
And not with its mind!!
Love is the answer
That everyone seeks...
Love is the language,That every heart speaks.
Love can't be bought,It is priceless and free,
Love, like pure magic,Is life's sweet mystery!!


I feel that people are drawn to someone who shares the same interests.

Is that it all?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Well I don’t understand completely. Having crush on someone in teens has become usual. I mean people not denying the fact of having crush has become common now.

Infatuation, flirting, friendship, love….
So many phases. Some sought of stupid psychic disorder. Grrrrrrrrrrr!

Oh please! Pardon me all lovers! I don’t mean it.
I feel it’s a pain.
Yesssssssssss.
Does every love end up in a healthy bloom of relationship?
Is it all the way successful?
Can’t say a word.
Is it after all a fate?
No clues…

It doesn’t mean that lovers who gets married of their own without the consent of their parents, doesn’t respect or love their parents. It’s a magic spell on them, which makes them think that they cannot live without the other. So, what’s better for a void life? Bhaghoooo !!!

These days young people; they themselves are their problems, wherein one among the two gets into a big trouble for life and suffers the trauma – unlucky soul. Either of them cannot understand the other perfectly or convince the other properly.

"Love is strong yet delicate.
It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.
To be in love is to respect this."

There is a song of Bryan adams…. [See below]

To really love a woman,
To understand her,
You've got to know her deep inside ...
Hear every thought,See every dream,
And give her wings when she wants to fly.
Then when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms ...
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman,Let her hold you,
Till you know how she needs to be touched.
You've got to breathe her, really taste her,
Till you can feel her in your blood.
And when you see your unborn children in her eyes ...
You know you really love a woman.

When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

You've got to give her some faith,
Hold her tight, a little tenderness.
You've got to treat her right.
She will be there for you taking good care of you ...
You really gotta love your woman.
And when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms,
You know you really love a woman.

When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

Oh man! What a lyrics?
Well, this is how a man with true passion; for love of a woman feels like.
How lucky the woman would feel for a man with these thoughts for her?

A woman!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

[To be Continued]

Does love exists?!?!?!?!
What kind of love, but?

God is love
Love is life
Love is blind.
Wow! We have so many quotes on love….

Some say while debating for the existence of god, that if you help the poor and needy, you can feel or realize god within. As a matter of fact, it’s absolutely prudent.
According to me, when an individual realizes what his duties are and performs them flawlessly without harming/disturbing others; be good/true to thyself and thy conscience, it gets us near and dear to god.

I believe that these qualities can never rise one fine day for any person. It takes into account, how we get raised from the childhood.

As a kid, we all would have been advised not to lie. Well, what would cause a kid to lie unless there is a need to escape the reprimand from parents and teachers? The most common lie would be to escape from going to school.

Aah! My mom used to warn me that if I lie that am ill, I will be so anytime.
Well, though it was a tactics of my mom to prevent me from lying, it is happening to me all the way till now.

Oh Mom! You are just great. You have raised me with discipline. Really, I have got some good principles to follow upon. Believe me.

Hmm… What a love can be between a mom and a child?
Don’t they get irritated upon each other? Well, they do, as every child is mischief. :-D

But still there is some kind of divine love that prevails between a mother and a child that is totally different for others. She is the one who always thinks the best ones for you in this world. She is the one who always cares about your well being. And she is the one who loves you unconditionally and be proud for having you. Yes, nobody else can love you so much in this world. For every single human being, it’s their mom who stands first in this world. As we all know, our own speaking God.

The love between a mother and a child being unchanged, some other love creeps up for every individual that takes us one step ahead of everything and becomes more important for oneself. Why so? How does it happen? What need does it have to be?

[To be Continued]

Reach ! I am my Scar!!! There are many occasions in life where the "inner peace" is challenged. Rather than learning how to be tolerant of difficult feelings, many of us have learned only to avoid them... our inclination is often to run from our emotions because they carry with them the threat of destruction. Indulging ourselves in thinking as a protective alternative, we try to avoid our fear by staying aloof of our feelings. I being the victim for long felt that it’s high time to fight that out. Because I always had "reasons" to be afraid and I am now being bombarded daily with more reasons to choose fear as my response... So many things happen in life that doesn’t seem to be part of the plan. An unexpected attack of fascination and illusion though happened for a short time, has left breathing sensation upon the cells and tissues. Whether it involves loss of a kin, the bloom or end of a relationship, our family, a situation takes place and we seem to have the rug swept out from under us. Yet, each challenge comes with a message, with a gift, that we can only discover if we listen to what it has to say; which seems to be very easy while advising or thinking of getting better; rather to take it as such to the heart. Because it cannot be put into words how it feels to be let down by dear and near. Trust and faith; the two items which are in very high demand these days. Reflection on happiness!!! A most common tendency of people is to explain feelings of happiness or unhappiness in terms of the external events of their lives whereas happiness by positives and unhappiness by negatives. The implication is that events determine whether or not they are happy which shouldn’t be the case. I have always suspected that our own attitudes have far more to do with how happy we are than any external circumstances. We all have commitment to happiness, putting negatives in the background and positives in the foreground, and not tormenting ourselves over those things out of our control. I had met few beautiful souls who made me think that being joyful is a more natural state. Yet their life had not been easy. They never spoke of past struggles with any hint of self-pity. I saw them hit by disappointing experiences from time to time, saw them sad or muted for a few hours (rarely longer than a day), then saw them bounce back to their natural state of joyfullness without any evidence of denial or repression. Their happiness was real and larger than any adversity. When I would ask such persons about their resilience, they would say, "I'm committed to being happy." And they added, "That takes self-discipline." Some almost never went to sleep at night without taking time to review everything good in their life; those were typically their last thoughts of the day. I thought that this was important. Then I thought of something I had noticed about myself. With every decade my childhood kept getting happier. If you asked me at my schooling or at twenty to describe my early years, the report would not have been different about the key facts, but the emphasis would have been different. At ten or twelve, the negatives in my childhood were foreground in my mind the positives were background; at twenty, the reverse was true. As I grew older, my perspective and sense of what was important about those early years changed. The more I studied and thought about other happy people I encountered, the more clear it became that happy people process their experiences so that, as quickly as possible, positives are held in the foreground of consciousness and negatives are consigned to the background. This is essential to understanding them. But then I was stopped by this thought: None of these ideas are entirely new to me; at some level they are familiar; why have I not implemented them better in my life? Once asked, I knew the answer: Somehow long back, I had decided that if I did not spend a significant amount of time focused on the negatives in my life, the disappointments and setbacks, I was being evasive, irresponsible toward reality, not serious enough about my life. Expressing this thought in words for the first time, I saw how absurd it was. It would be reasonable only if there were corrective actions I could be taking that I was avoiding taking. But if I was taking every action possible, then a further focus on negatives had no merit whatsoever. If something is wrong, the question to ask is: Is there an action I can take to improve or correct the situation? If there is, take it. If there isn't, I do my best not to torment myself about what is beyond my control. Admittedly this last is not always easy. Turning my painful realities into personal cultivation and my response to these realities is sculpturing my life yet not shaping which seems to be far beyond. And now, I recover more quickly from disappointments but with the unhealed wounds somewhere unnoticed beneath everything in my heart.Self hypnosis views the brain as a giant computer that will believe what we feed it, good or bad. Maybe I was simply feeding my brain the wrong diet. I'm not sure, at what exact time it all came together, but it did. The key ideas are: Begin each day with two questions: What's good in my life?--and what needs to be done? The first question keeps us focused on the positives. The second reminds us that our life and well-being are our own responsibility. The world has rarely treated happiness as a state worthy of serious respect. And yet, if we see someone who, in spite of life's adversities, is happy a good deal of the time, we should recognize that we are looking at a spiritual achievement--and one worth aspiring to.